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Act Fast, Raise Big: The Skills You Need to Win Major Donors Today

Large piece of lemon meringue pieShifting politics are creating economic uncertainty for all, and it’s especially scary for U.S. nonprofits who, on average, receive about a third of their total funding from Federal grants. This means nonprofits today need to shift emphasis (and budget) toward individual donor engagement strategies. Giving USA reports 74% of all giving (lifetime + bequests) came from individuals last year.

Major individual donors are, by far, the largest slice of today’s philanthropy pie.

If I had to tell you what you need to do to succeed with major gift fundraising in one sentence it would be this:

Identify major donor prospects… qualify them so you know they want to build a deeper relationship with you… cultivate them… visit with them… listen to them… reflect back to them what you heard… ask them for something specific that resonates with their passions… steward their gift and communicate in an ongoing way to make them feel like the hero they are!

Whew – that was a mouthful!

But don’t worry. It’s definitely not rocket science. A shorter way to say this is:

Meet with donors. Listen to donors. Ask donors. Thank donors.

See — it’s simple!

It’s just good old hard work. Satisfying and rewarding work. And it’s a type of work anyone can learn to do.

Over my 40 years in fundraising, 30 of them working in the trenches as a director of development for organizations with budgets ranging from $1 – $40 million, I have asked for a lot of major gifts.  I know what works, and what doesn’t work. Today I want to give you:

(1) some of my best pro tips and words of wisdom, and also

(2) answers to some of the questions folks frequently ask me .

I hope this information will help you tweak your mindset and invigorate your systems so you can be more successful fundraising in the coming year!

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Major Gifts Fundraising: Pie in the Sky, Pie in your Face or Your Piece of Pie

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Which major donor prospects are your best ‘piece of pie?’

Do you think Bill Gates, Warren Buffet or MacKenzie Scott are likely prospects for major giving to your nonprofit?

Sadly, all too often I hear board members suggesting names like these (perhaps it may simply be the richest known philanthropist in the community) – despite the fact that the prospect has (1) no known interest in the cause, and (2) nobody at the organization knows or has any link to this person.

Really, this practice must stop!

There’s a much better way.

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Why Creating Donor Engagement Opportunities Boosts Fundraising

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Awareness alone is passive

I wish I had a dime for every time a nonprofit board or staff member told me

We’re the best kept secret in town; if people knew what we do, they’d give to support us.”

Sound familiar?

If I had all those dimes, I could make a nice contribution to your cause.

But I likely wouldn’t choose to do so, unless you intentionally made it clear the following were important to you:

  • Learning a little bit about me,
  • Engaging me personally,
  • Making a specific, not vague, ask.

You see, merely “building awareness” will not ipso facto raise more money for your cause.

Just because I care about something, and somehow learn you are involved in doing something about that thing, doesn’t mean I’m going to support you financially.

Why should I?

There are a lot of good causes out there, and making a decision to invest in you is something I need to act on.

I’m busy.

I’m overloaded with information.

Inertia is just too powerful a force.

Want to do something to shake me awake?

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Top Strategies for Open Nonprofit Donor Conversations

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Every donor conversation should be co-creative.

 

A few years ago I enrolled in an intensive coaching course. It wasn’t designed just for aspiring professional coaches, but for anyone who wanted to bring a more thoughtful, empowering approach to everyday conversations.

What struck me most was how directly these lessons apply to fundraising — especially donor conversations.

At the heart of this approach are two qualities every fundraiser needs.

1. CURIOSITY

When you’re genuinely curious about another person you ask questions to draw them out.

And questions to help them get to the place they want to go; not where you think they should go.

Because what’s right for you is not always right for someone else. They’ll tell you what’s right – with you acting as their guide – but only if you’re interested enough to ask.

It happens some questions are better than others if you want to get to the core of the matter at hand. We’ll get to those in a moment.

2. LISTENING

There’s a better way to have dynamic, effective conversations than jumping in prematurely with your own opinion.

I’ve always known this, but it turns out there’s more to it than adopting the old adage: “You have two ears and one mouth; use them in that proportion.”

Because it’s how you approach the listening that matters.

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Better Nonprofit Communications: 7 Simple Ways to Increase Donor Response

Nonprofits put enormous time and care into donor communications. Yet too often, appeals, es, newsletters, websites, and event promotions fail to generate the response organizations hope for. Why? Usually. it’s not because the mission isn’t compelling. It’s because the communication isn’t connecting quickly or emotionally enough. Today’s donors are overloaded with information and constantly distracted.…

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It’s Not Too Early to Prepare for Prime Fundraising Season!

Fall fundraising season may feel far away, but the organizations that thrive at year-end are usually planning long before September arrives. That’s because strong fundraising results rarely happen by accident. They come from: Clarity about priorities, Discipd use of time, and Realistic understanding of resources needed to grow contributed income. Too many nonprofit professionals operate…

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