Wrong Ways to Woo Nonprofit Donors
What do you most need to sustain your nonprofit through thick and thin?
A steady, reliable source of income – natch!
For most nonprofits this means loyal donors.
How do you get them?
Alas, too many nonprofits act as if all they need to do is acquire the donor; then, magically, that donor will stick with them forever. Sadly, the data shows otherwise. On average only 20% of first-time donors renew; only 43% of all donors renew. And there’s a very good reason this sorry state of affairs exists.
Most nonprofits woo donors the wrong way.
It may not happen all the time. But it happens enough. Too often, in fact. Does this look at all like the trajectory of how you handle a newly acquired gift?
- You badger the donor for gifts.
- When they give, you warehouse them in your database.
- You then send a form letter (pretending it’s personal because you use their given name and indicate their gift was earmarked for a particular purpose; in reality, most of the time you don’t know them from Adam nor do you try to get to know them beyond what they wrote on the flap of the remit envelope).
- Next, they get on your newsletter list and receive mass mailings.
- Before you know it – or know much about them — they’re getting another appeal letter.
There’s a better way.
Actively show donors love and trust. This is the best way to get them to love and trust you, and the two most important aspects of donor loyalty. Relationships that last are reciprocal. Penelope Burk, the queen of donor-centered fundraising, famously found through her research that donors’ number one desire is … please, please “show me that you know me.” If you want donors to trust you and be loyal to you, you have to trust them and be loyal to them. Simple, yes? Actually, no.
To earn trust and loyalty takes strategy. And it takes work. Mark Schaefer makes a brilliant analogy


Trust defines the credibility and legitimacy not only of your organization, but of the entire social benefit sector. Yet too few organizations make the effort to operationalize this construct into their fundraising and marketing planning.

Ever have a well-meaning, yet perhaps overly controlling or risk-aversive, boss say to you:
Spring is always a good time for rebirth and dusting away the cobwebs. And what a grave, dusty, cobwebby year it’s been.
Giving is an emotional experience. It deserves an emotional response.
One of my pet peeves as a donor is making a contribution (via a peer-to-peer request or tribute gift in honor or memory) in support of a friend; then receiving nothing but a form receipt.

13 happens to be my lucky number. I want it to be lucky for you too.
The Unfair Exchange
People are more generous when they feel more connected. 

If I had to tell you what you need to do to succeed with major gift fundraising in one short paragraph it would be this:




Everyone is saying it.







There’s a lot about fundraising folks take for granted. And not in a good way. Because… much of it is untrue!
Who doesn’t love a holiday?



Fighting the good fight for your nonprofit’s cause is what you do best.

I’m continuing with my new, occasional feature of “Do’s vs. Don’ts.”
When people give to you for the first time, often they know very little about you. Perhaps they found you through a link on social media. Or organic search. Or through a friend who emailed them a link to your appeal.





